1 Corinthians — Chapter 7

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1Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

2Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

3Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

5Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

6But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

7For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

8I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.

9But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

10And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

12But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

16For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?

17But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.

18Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.

19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.

20Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.

21Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.

22For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord’s freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ’s servant.

23Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.

24Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.

25Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.

26I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.

27Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.

28But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.

29But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;

30And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;

31And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.

32But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:

33But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.

34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

35And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

36But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.

37Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.

38So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.

39The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.

40But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.

1Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

2But, because of fornications, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

3Let the husband render unto the wife her due: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

4The wife hath not power over her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife.

5Defraud ye not one the other, except it be by consent for a season, that ye may give yourselves unto prayer, and may be together again, that Satan tempt you not because of your incontinency.

6But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment.

7Yet I would that all men were even as I myself. Howbeit each man hath his own gift from God, one after this manner, and another after that.

8But I say to the unmarried and to widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.

9But if they have not continency, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

10But unto the married I give charge, [yea] not I, but the Lord, That the wife depart not from her husband

11(but should she depart, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband); and that the husband leave not his wife.

12But to the rest say I, not the Lord: If any brother hath an unbelieving wife, and she is content to dwell with him, let him not leave her.

13And the woman that hath an unbelieving husband, and he is content to dwell with her, let her not leave her husband.

14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the brother: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15Yet if the unbelieving departeth, let him depart: the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such [cases]: but God hath called us in peace.

16For how knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? Or how knowest thou, O husband, whether thou shalt save thy wife?

17Only, as the Lord hath distributed to each man, as God hath called each, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all the churches.

18Was any man called being circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Hath any been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised.

19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing; but the keeping of the commandments of God.

20Let each man abide in that calling wherein he was called.

21Wast thou called being a bondservant? Care not for it: nay, even if thou canst become free, use [it] rather.

22For he that was called in the Lord being a bondservant, is the Lord`s freedman: likewise he that was called being free, is Christ`s bondservant.

23Ye were bought with a price; become not bondservants of men.

24Brethren, let each man, wherein he was called, therein abide with God.

25Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: but I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be trustworthy.

26I think therefore that this is good by reason of the distress that is upon us, [namely,] that it is good for a man to be as he is.

27Art thou bound unto a wife? Seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? Seek not a wife.

28But shouldest thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Yet such shall have tribulation in the flesh: and I would spare you.

29But this I say, brethren, the time is shortened, that henceforth both those that have wives may be as though they had none;

30and those that weep, as though they wept not; and those that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and those that buy, as though they possessed not;

31and those that use the world, as not using it to the full: for the fashion of this world passeth away.

32But I would have you to be free from cares. He that is unmarried is careful for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord:

33but he that is married is careful for the things of the world, how he may please his wife,

34and is divided. [So] also the woman that is unmarried and the virgin is careful for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married is careful for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

35And this I say for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is seemly, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

36But if any man thinketh that he behaveth himself unseemly toward his virgin [daughter], if she be past the flower of her age, and if need so requireth, let him do what he will; he sinneth not; let them marry.

37But he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power as touching in his own heart, to keep his own virgin [daughter], shall do well.

38So then both he that giveth his own virgin [daughter] in marriage doeth well; and he that giveth her not in marriage shall do better.

39A wife is bound for so long time as her husband liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is free to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.

40But she is happier if she abide as she is, after my judgment: and I think that I also have the Spirit of God.

1Now with regard to the issues you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.”

2But because of immoralities, each man should have relations with his own wife and each woman with her own husband.

3A husband should fulfill his marital responsibility to his wife, and likewise a wife to her husband.

4It is not the wife who has the rights to her own body, but the husband. In the same way, it is not the husband who has the rights to his own body, but the wife.

5Do not deprive each other, except by mutual agreement for a specified time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then resume your relationship, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

6I say this as a concession, not as a command.

7I wish that everyone was as I am. But each has his own gift from God, one this way, another that.

8To the unmarried and widows I say that it is best for them to remain as I am.

9But if they do not have self-control, let them get married. For it is better to marry than to burn with sexual desire.

10To the married I give this command—not I, but the Lord—a wife should not divorce a husband

11(but if she does, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband), and a husband should not divorce his wife.

12To the rest I say—I, not the Lord—if a brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is happy to live with him, he should not divorce her.

13And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is happy to live with her, she should not divorce him.

14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified because of the wife, and the unbelieving wife because of her husband. Otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy.

15But if the unbeliever wants a divorce, let it take place. In these circumstances the brother or sister is not bound. God has called you in peace.

16For how do you know, wife, whether you will bring your husband to salvation? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will bring your wife to salvation?

17Nevertheless, as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each person, so must he live. I give this sort of direction in all the churches.

18Was anyone called after he had been circumcised? He should not try to undo his circumcision. Was anyone called who is uncircumcised? He should not get circumcised.

19Circumcision is nothing and uncircumcision is nothing. Instead, keeping God’s commandments is what counts.

20Let each one remain in that situation in life in which he was called.

21Were you called as a slave? Do not worry about it. But if indeed you are able to be free, make the most of the opportunity.

22For the one who was called in the Lord as a slave is the Lord’s freedman. In the same way, the one who was called as a free person is Christ’s slave.

23You were bought with a price. Do not become slaves of men.

24In whatever situation someone was called, brothers and sisters, let him remain in it with God.

25With regard to the question about people who have never married, I have no command from the Lord, but I give my opinion as one shown mercy by the Lord to be trustworthy.

26Because of the impending crisis I think it best for you to remain as you are.

27The one bound to a wife should not seek divorce. The one released from a wife should not seek marriage.

28But if you marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face difficult circumstances, and I am trying to spare you such problems.

29And I say this, brothers and sisters: The time is short. So then those who have wives should be as those who have none,

30those with tears like those not weeping, those who rejoice like those not rejoicing, those who buy like those without possessions,

31those who use the world as though they were not using it to the full. For the present shape of this world is passing away.

32And I want you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord.

33But a married man is concerned about the things of the world, how to please his wife,

34and he is divided. An unmarried woman or a virgin is concerned about the things of the Lord, to be holy both in body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the things of the world, how to please her husband.

35I am saying this for your benefit, not to place a limitation on you, but so that without distraction you may give notable and constant service to the Lord.

36If anyone thinks he is acting inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the bloom of youth and it seems necessary, he should do what he wishes; he does not sin. Let them marry.

37But the man who is firm in his commitment, and is under no necessity but has control over his will, and has decided in his own mind to keep his own virgin, does well.

38So then, the one who marries his own virgin does well, but the one who does not, does better.

39A wife is bound as long as her husband is living. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes (only someone in the Lord).

40But in my opinion, she will be happier if she remains as she is—and I think that I too have the Spirit of God!

1Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman.

2But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

3Let the husband give his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife her husband.

4The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife.

5Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

6But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment.

7Yet I wish that all men were like me. However each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind.

8But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am.

9But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn.

10But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband

11(but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.

12But to the rest I—not the Lord—say, if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she is content to live with him, let him not leave her.

13The woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband.

14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.

15Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace.

16For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?

17Only, as the Lord has distributed to each man, as God has called each, so let him walk. So I command in all the assemblies.

18Was anyone called having been circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised.

19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.

20Let each man stay in that calling in which he was called.

21Were you called being a bondservant? Don’t let that bother you, but if you get an opportunity to become free, use it.

22For he who was called in the Lord being a bondservant is the Lord’s free man. Likewise he who was called being free is Christ’s bondservant.

23You were bought with a price. Don’t become bondservants of men.

24Brothers, let each man, in whatever condition he was called, stay in that condition with God.

25Now concerning virgins, I have no commandment from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who has obtained mercy from the Lord to be trustworthy.

26Therefore I think that because of the distress that is on us, that it’s good for a man to remain as he is.

27Are you bound to a wife? Don’t seek to be freed. Are you free from a wife? Don’t seek a wife.

28But if you marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you.

29But I say this, brothers: the time is short, that from now on, both those who have wives may be as though they had none;

30and those who weep, as though they didn’t weep; and those who rejoice, as though they didn’t rejoice; and those who buy, as though they didn’t possess;

31and those who use the world, as not using it to the fullest. For the mode of this world passes away.

32But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord;

33but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife.

34There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband.

35This I say for your own profit; not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction.

36But if any man thinks that he is behaving inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of her age, and if need so requires, let him do what he desires. He doesn’t sin. Let them marry.

37But he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no urgency, but has power over his own will, and has determined in his own heart to keep his own virgin, does well.

38So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.

39A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord.

40But she is happier if she stays as she is, in my judgment, and I think that I also have God’s Spirit.

Summary
Authorship & Background
Map & Geography
Commentary
Videos
Reflection

Summary

Paul addresses marriage, singleness, divorce, and celibacy — each is a gift from God, believers should remain in their calling, and the unmarried can serve the Lord with undivided devotion as "the time is short."

Authorship & Background

Author: Paul (see Chapter 1 notes for full authorship details).
Historical Context: Chapter 7 begins Paul's responses to questions the Corinthians wrote to him ("Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote," v.1). This chapter addresses marriage, singleness, divorce, and contentment in one's calling. Paul writes during a time of "present distress" (v.26) — possibly persecution or famine — which colors his advice toward singleness.
Marriage and Singleness (vv.1-9): Both are gifts from God (v.7). Marriage is good and provides protection against sexual temptation (v.2). Singleness allows undivided devotion to the Lord (vv.32-35). Neither is superior — each is a calling.
Divorce (vv.10-16): Paul gives two scenarios: (1) Two believers — don't divorce; if separated, remain unmarried or reconcile (vv.10-11). (2) A believer married to an unbeliever — if the unbeliever is willing to stay, don't divorce; if the unbeliever leaves, "a brother or sister is not under bondage" (v.15).
"Bloom Where You're Planted" (vv.17-24): The overarching principle: remain in the situation you were in when God called you (v.20). Circumcised? Stay. Uncircumcised? Stay. Slave? Don't worry — but take freedom if offered (v.21). The point: your external circumstances don't determine your spiritual value.

Map & Geography

  • No specific geographic locations are referenced in this chapter.

Commentary

  • Enduring Word (David Guzik): enduringword.com Guzik examines marriage, singleness, divorce, mixed marriages, and contentment in one's calling.
  • Charles Spurgeon: Sermon: "The Time Is Short" on v.29 (MTP Vol. 10, No. 649) "The time is short — therefore hold everything loosely. Marriage, grief, joy, possessions — hold them all with open hands. The fashion of this world is passing away. Live with eternity in view." Sermon: "Bought with a Price" on v.23 (MTP Vol. 22, No. 1382) "Ye are bought with a price — therefore be not the servants of men. You belong to God. Don't let human opinions, human expectations, or human pressure enslave you. Your Master is Christ — serve Him alone."

Videos

The Bible Project — 1 Corinthians Overview

Animated overview of the book's literary structure, themes, and theological message. Excellent visual introduction. (Approx. 8 minutes)

Reflection

  • 1. "Every man hath his proper gift of God" (v.7). Whether married or single, your status is a gift — not a curse. Are you stewarding your current situation as a gift, or resenting it as a limitation?
  • 2. "Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called" (v.20). Contentment in your current situation — not constantly seeking to change your circumstances. Where do you need to "bloom where you're planted"?
  • 3. "The time is short" (v.29). Life is brief; eternity is long. Are you living with urgency — holding everything loosely — or are you gripping this world as if it will last forever?
  • 4. "Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men" (v.23). You belong to God — not to human opinions, expectations, or pressure. Whose approval are you living for — God's or people's?
  • 5. Paul says marriage provides protection against sexual temptation (v.2). If you are married, how are you investing in the sexual health of your marriage? If single, what boundaries protect your purity?
  • 6. Paul advises against divorce even in difficult marriages (vv.10-16). What does commitment to marriage "for better or worse" look like practically? Where do you need to invest more in your marriage?
  • 7. "The fashion of this world passeth away" (v.31). Everything you see is temporary. How does this truth affect your priorities — what you pursue, what you invest in, what you worry about?
  • 8. Paul says singleness allows "undivided devotion to the Lord" (v.35). If you are single, are you using that freedom for the Lord? If married, how do you maintain devotion to Christ alongside devotion to your spouse?
  • 9. "God hath called us to peace" (v.15). In difficult relationships — even ones that end — God's call is to peace. Where do you need to pursue peace in a broken or strained relationship?