1 Samuel — Chapter 20

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1And David fled from Naioth in Ramah, and came and said before Jonathan, What have I done? what is mine iniquity? and what is my sin before thy father, that he seeketh my life?

2And he said unto him, God forbid; thou shalt not die: behold, my father will do nothing either great or small, but that he will shew it me: and why should my father hide this thing from me? it is not so.

3And David sware moreover, and said, Thy father certainly knoweth that I have found grace in thine eyes; and he saith, Let not Jonathan know this, lest he be grieved: but truly as the LORD liveth, and as thy soul liveth, there is but a step between me and death.

4Then said Jonathan unto David, Whatsoever thy soul desireth, I will even do it for thee.

5And David said unto Jonathan, Behold, to morrow is the new moon, and I should not fail to sit with the king at meat: but let me go, that I may hide myself in the field unto the third day at even.

6If thy father at all miss me, then say, David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Bethlehem his city: for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family.

7If he say thus, It is well; thy servant shall have peace: but if he be very wroth, then be sure that evil is determined by him.

8Therefore thou shalt deal kindly with thy servant; for thou hast brought thy servant into a covenant of the LORD with thee: notwithstanding, if there be in me iniquity, slay me thyself; for why shouldest thou bring me to thy father?

9And Jonathan said, Far be it from thee: for if I knew certainly that evil were determined by my father to come upon thee, then would not I tell it thee?

10Then said David to Jonathan, Who shall tell me? or what if thy father answer thee roughly?

11And Jonathan said unto David, Come, and let us go out into the field. And they went out both of them into the field.

12And Jonathan said unto David, O LORD God of Israel, when I have sounded my father about to morrow any time, or the third day, and, behold, if there be good toward David, and I then send not unto thee, and shew it thee;

13The LORD do so and much more to Jonathan: but if it please my father to do thee evil, then I will shew it thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father.

14And thou shalt not only while yet I live shew me the kindness of the LORD, that I die not:

15But also thou shalt not cut off thy kindness from my house for ever: no, not when the LORD hath cut off the enemies of David every one from the face of the earth.

16So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David, saying, Let the LORD even require it at the hand of David’s enemies.

17And Jonathan caused David to swear again, because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.

18Then Jonathan said to David, To morrow is the new moon: and thou shalt be missed, because thy seat will be empty.

19And when thou hast stayed three days, then thou shalt go down quickly, and come to the place where thou didst hide thyself when the business was in hand, and shalt remain by the stone Ezel.

20And I will shoot three arrows on the side thereof, as though I shot at a mark.

21And, behold, I will send a lad, saying, Go, find out the arrows. If I expressly say unto the lad, Behold, the arrows are on this side of thee, take them; then come thou: for there is peace to thee, and no hurt; as the LORD liveth.

22But if I say thus unto the young man, Behold, the arrows are beyond thee; go thy way: for the LORD hath sent thee away.

23And as touching the matter which thou and I have spoken of, behold, the LORD be between thee and me for ever.

24So David hid himself in the field: and when the new moon was come, the king sat him down to eat meat.

25And the king sat upon his seat, as at other times, even upon a seat by the wall: and Jonathan arose, and Abner sat by Saul’s side, and David’s place was empty.

26Nevertheless Saul spake not any thing that day: for he thought, Something hath befallen him, he is not clean; surely he is not clean.

27And it came to pass on the morrow, which was the second day of the month, that David’s place was empty: and Saul said unto Jonathan his son, Wherefore cometh not the son of Jesse to meat, neither yesterday, nor to day?

28And Jonathan answered Saul, David earnestly asked leave of me to go to Bethlehem:

29And he said, Let me go, I pray thee; for our family hath a sacrifice in the city; and my brother, he hath commanded me to be there: and now, if I have found favour in thine eyes, let me get away, I pray thee, and see my brethren. Therefore he cometh not unto the king’s table.

30Then Saul’s anger was kindled against Jonathan, and he said unto him, Thou son of the perverse rebellious woman, do not I know that thou hast chosen the son of Jesse to thine own confusion, and unto the confusion of thy mother’s nakedness?

31For as long as the son of Jesse liveth upon the ground, thou shalt not be established, nor thy kingdom. Wherefore now send and fetch him unto me, for he shall surely die.

32And Jonathan answered Saul his father, and said unto him, Wherefore shall he be slain? what hath he done?

33And Saul cast a javelin at him to smite him: whereby Jonathan knew that it was determined of his father to slay David.

34So Jonathan arose from the table in fierce anger, and did eat no meat the second day of the month: for he was grieved for David, because his father had done him shame.

35And it came to pass in the morning, that Jonathan went out into the field at the time appointed with David, and a little lad with him.

36And he said unto his lad, Run, find out now the arrows which I shoot. And as the lad ran, he shot an arrow beyond him.

37And when the lad was come to the place of the arrow which Jonathan had shot, Jonathan cried after the lad, and said, Is not the arrow beyond thee?

38And Jonathan cried after the lad, Make speed, haste, stay not. And Jonathan’s lad gathered up the arrows, and came to his master.

39But the lad knew not any thing: only Jonathan and David knew the matter.

40And Jonathan gave his artillery unto his lad, and said unto him, Go, carry them to the city.

41And as soon as the lad was gone, David arose out of a place toward the south, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded.

42And Jonathan said to David, Go in peace, forasmuch as we have sworn both of us in the name of the LORD, saying, The LORD be between me and thee, and between my seed and thy seed for ever. And he arose and departed: and Jonathan went into the city.

1And David fled from Naioth in Ramah, and came and said before Jonathan, What have I done? what is mine iniquity? and what is my sin before thy father, that he seeketh my life?

2And he said unto him, Far from it; thou shalt not die: behold, my father doeth nothing either great or small, but that he discloseth it unto me; and why should my father hide this thing from me? it is not so.

3And David sware moreover, and said, Thy father knoweth well that I have found favor in thine eyes; and he saith, Let not Jonathan know this, lest he be grieved: but truly as Jehovah liveth, and as thy soul liveth, there is but a step between me and death.

4Then said Jonathan unto David, Whatsoever thy soul desireth, I will even do it for thee.

5And David said unto Jonathan, Behold, to-morrow is the new moon, and I should not fail to sit with the king at meat: but let me go, that I may hide myself in the field unto the third day at even.

6If thy father miss me at all, then say, David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Beth-lehem his city; for it is the yearly sacrifice there for all the family.

7If he say thus, It is well; thy servant shall have peace: but if he be wroth, then know that evil is determined by him.

8Therefore deal kindly with thy servant; for thou hast brought thy servant into a covenant of Jehovah with thee: but if there be in me iniquity, slay me thyself; for why shouldest thou bring me to thy father?

9And Jonathan said, Far be it from thee; for if I should at all know that evil were determined by my father to come upon thee, then would not I tell it thee?

10Then said David to Jonathan, Who shall tell me if perchance thy father answer thee roughly?

11And Jonathan said unto David, Come, and let us go out into the field. And they went out both of them into the field.

12And Jonathan said unto David, Jehovah, the God of Israel, [be witness]: when I have sounded my father about this time to-morrow, [or] the third day, behold, if there be good toward David, shall I not then send unto thee, and disclose it unto thee?

13Jehovah do so to Jonathan, and more also, should it please my father to do thee evil, if I disclose it not unto thee, and send thee away, that thou mayest go in peace: and Jehovah be with thee, as he hath been with my father.

14And thou shalt not only while yet I live show me the lovingkindness of Jehovah, that I die not;

15but also thou shalt not cut off thy kindness from my house for ever; no, not when Jehovah hath cut off the enemies of David every one from the face of the earth.

16So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David, [saying], And Jehovah will require it at the hand of David`s enemies.

17And Jonathan caused David to swear again, for the love that he had to him; for he loved him as he loved his own soul.

18Then Jonathan said unto him, To-morrow is the new moon: and thou wilt be missed, because thy seat will be empty.

19And when thou hast stayed three days, thou shalt go down quickly, and come to the place where thou didst hide thyself when the business was in hand, and shalt remain by the stone Ezel.

20And I will shoot three arrows on the side thereof, as though I shot at a mark.

21And, behold, I will send the lad, [saying], Go, find the arrows. If I say unto the lad, Behold, the arrows are on this side of thee; take them, and come; for there is peace to thee and no hurt, as Jehovah liveth.

22But if I say thus unto the boy, Behold, the arrows are beyond thee; go thy way; for Jehovah hath sent thee away.

23And as touching the matter which thou and I have spoken of, behold, Jehovah is between thee and me for ever.

24So David hid himself in the field: and when the new moon was come, the king sat him down to eat food.

25And the king sat upon his seat, as at other times, even upon the seat by the wall; and Jonathan stood up, and Abner sat by Saul`s side: but David`s place was empty.

26Nevertheless Saul spake not anything that day: for he thought, Something hath befallen him, he is not clean; surely he is not clean.

27And it came to pass on the morrow after the new moon, [which was] the second [day], that David`s place was empty: and Saul said unto Jonathan his son, Wherefore cometh not the son of Jesse to meat, neither yesterday, nor to-day?

28And Jonathan answered Saul, David earnestly asked leave of me to go to Beth-lehem:

29and he said, Let me go, I pray thee; for our family hath a sacrifice in the city; and my brother, he hath commanded me [to be there]: and now, if I have found favor in thine eyes, let me get away, I pray thee, and see my brethren. Therefore he is not come unto the king`s table.

30Then Saul`s anger was kindled against Jonathan, and he said unto him, Thou son of a perverse rebellious woman, do not I know that thou hast chosen the son of Jesse to thine own shame, and unto the shame of thy mother`s nakedness?

31For as long as the son of Jesse liveth upon the ground, thou shalt not be established, nor thy kingdom. Wherefore now send and fetch him unto me, for he shall surely die.

32And Jonathan answered Saul his father, and said unto him, Wherefore should he be put to death? what hath he done?

33And Saul cast his spear at him to smite him; whereby Jonathan knew that is was determined of his father to put David to death.

34So Jonathan arose from the table in fierce anger, and did eat no food the second day of the month; for he was grieved for David, because his father had done him shame.

35And it came to pass in the morning, that Jonathan went out into the field at the time appointed with David, and a little lad with him.

36And he said unto his lad, Run, find now the arrows which I shoot. And as the lad ran, he shot an arrow beyond him.

37And when the lad was come to the place of the arrow which Jonathan had shot, Jonathan cried after the lad, and said, Is not the arrow beyond thee?

38And Jonathan cried after the lad, Make speed, haste, stay not. And Jonathan`s lad gathered up the arrows, and came to his master.

39But the lad knew not anything: only Jonathan and David knew the matter.

40And Jonathan gave his weapons unto his lad, and said unto him, Go, carry them to the city.

41And as soon as the lad was gone, David arose out of [a place] toward the South, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded.

42And Jonathan said to David, Go in peace, forasmuch as we have sworn both of us in the name of Jehovah, saying, Jehovah shall be between me and thee, and between my seed and thy seed, for ever. And he arose and departed: and Jonathan went into the city.

1David fled from Naioth in Ramah. He came to Jonathan and asked, “What have I done? What is my offense? How have I sinned before your father, that he is seeking my life?”

2Jonathan said to him, “By no means are you going to die! My father does nothing large or small without making me aware of it. Why would my father hide this matter from me? It just won’t happen!”

3Taking an oath, David again said, “Your father is very much aware of the fact that I have found favor with you, and he has thought, ‘Don’t let Jonathan know about this, or he will be upset.’ But as surely as the Lord lives and you live, there is about one step between me and death!”

4Jonathan replied to David, “Tell me what I can do for you.”

5David said to Jonathan, “Tomorrow is the new moon, and I am certainly expected to join the king for a meal. You must send me away so I can hide in the field until the third evening from now.

6If your father happens to miss me, you should say, ‘David urgently requested me to let him go to his town Bethlehem, for there is an annual sacrifice there for his entire family.’

7If he should then say, ‘That’s fine,’ then your servant is safe. But if he becomes very angry, be assured that he has decided to harm me.

8You must be loyal to your servant, for you have made a covenant with your servant in the Lord’s name. If I am guilty, you yourself kill me! Why bother taking me to your father?”

9Jonathan said, “Far be it from you to suggest this! If I were at all aware that my father had decided to harm you, wouldn’t I tell you about it?”

10David said to Jonathan, “Who will tell me if your father answers you harshly?”

11Jonathan said to David, “Come on. Let’s go out to the field.”When the two of them had gone out into the field,

12Jonathan said to David, “The Lord God of Israel is my witness! I will feel out my father about this time the day after tomorrow. If he is favorably inclined toward David, will I not then send word to you and let you know?

13But if my father intends to do you harm, may the Lord do all this and more to Jonathan if I don’t let you know and send word to you, so you can go safely on your way. May the Lord be with you, as he was with my father.

14While I am still alive, extend to me the loyalty of the Lord, or else I will die.

15Don’t ever cut off your loyalty to my family, not even when the Lord has cut off every one of David’s enemies from the face of the earth

16and called David’s enemies to account.” So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David.

17Jonathan once again took an oath with David, because he loved him. In fact Jonathan loved him as much as he did his own life.

18Jonathan said to him, “Tomorrow is the new moon, and you will be missed, for your seat will be empty.

19On the third day you should go down quickly and come to the place where you hid yourself the day this all started. Stay near the stone Ezel.

20I will shoot three arrows near it, as though I were shooting at a target.

21When I send a boy after them, I will say, ‘Go and find the arrows.’ If I say to the boy, ‘Look, the arrows are on this side of you; get them,’ then come back. For as surely as the Lord lives, you will be safe and there will be no problem.

22But if I say to the boy, ‘Look, the arrows are on the other side of you,’ then get away. For in that case the Lord has sent you away.

23With regard to the matter that you and I discussed, the Lord is the witness between us forever.”

24So David hid in the field. When the new moon came, the king sat down to eat his meal.

25The king sat down in his usual place by the wall, with Jonathan opposite him and Abner at his side. But David’s place was vacant.

26However, Saul said nothing about it that day, for he thought, “Something has happened to make him ceremonially unclean. Yes, he must be unclean.”

27But the next morning, the second day of the new moon, David’s place was still vacant. So Saul said to his son Jonathan, “Why has Jesse’s son not come to the meal yesterday or today?”

28Jonathan replied to Saul, “David urgently requested that he be allowed to go to Bethlehem.

29He said, ‘Permit me to go, for we are having a family sacrifice in the town, and my brother urged me to be there. So now, if I have found favor with you, let me go to see my brothers.’ For that reason he has not come to the king’s table.”

30Saul became angry with Jonathan and said to him, “You stupid traitor! Don’t I realize that to your own disgrace and to the disgrace of your mother’s nakedness you have chosen this son of Jesse?

31For as long as this son of Jesse is alive on the earth, you and your kingdom will not be established. Now, send some men and bring him to me. For he is as good as dead!”

32Jonathan responded to his father Saul, “Why should he be put to death? What has he done?”

33Then Saul threw his spear at Jonathan in order to strike him down. So Jonathan was convinced that his father had decided to kill David.

34Jonathan got up from the table enraged. He did not eat any food on that second day of the new moon, for he was upset that his father had humiliated David.

35The next morning Jonathan, along with a young servant, went out to the field to meet David.

36He said to his servant, “Run, find the arrows that I am about to shoot.” As the servant ran, Jonathan shot the arrow beyond him.

37When the servant came to the place where Jonathan had shot the arrow, Jonathan called out to the servant, “Isn’t the arrow farther beyond you?”

38Jonathan called out to the servant, “Hurry! Go faster! Don’t delay!” Jonathan’s servant retrieved the arrow and came back to his master.

39(Now the servant did not understand any of this. Only Jonathan and David knew what was going on.)

40Then Jonathan gave his equipment to the servant who was with him. He said to him, “Go, take these things back to the town.”

41When the servant had left, David got up from beside the mound, knelt with his face to the ground, and bowed three times. Then they kissed each other and they both wept, especially David.

42Jonathan said to David, “Go in peace, for the two of us have sworn together in the name of the Lord saying, ‘The Lord will be between me and you and between my descendants and your descendants forever.’”(21:1) Then David got up and left, while Jonathan went back to the town of Naioth.

1David fled from Naioth in Ramah, and came and said before Jonathan, “What have I done? What is my iniquity? What is my sin before your father, that he seeks my life?”

2He said to him, “Far from it; you will not die. Behold, my father does nothing either great or small, but that he discloses it to me. Why would my father hide this thing from me? It is not so.”

3David swore moreover, and said, “Your father knows well that I have found favor in your eyes; and he says, ‘Don’t let Jonathan know this, lest he be grieved:’ but truly as Yahweh lives, and as your soul lives, there is but a step between me and death.”

4Then Jonathan said to David, “Whatever your soul desires, I will even do it for you.”

5David said to Jonathan, “Behold, tomorrow is the new moon, and I should not fail to dine with the king; but let me go, that I may hide myself in the field to the third day at evening.

6If your father misses me at all, then say, ‘David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Bethlehem his city; for it is the yearly sacrifice there for all the family.’

7If he says, ‘It is well;’ your servant shall have peace: but if he is angry, then know that evil is determined by him.

8Therefore deal kindly with your servant; for you have brought your servant into a covenant of Yahweh with you; but if there is iniquity in me, kill me yourself; for why should you bring me to your father?”

9Jonathan said, “Far be it from you; for if I should at all know that evil were determined by my father to come on you, then wouldn’t I tell you that?”

10Then David said to Jonathan, “Who will tell me if your father answers you roughly?”

11Jonathan said to David, “Come, and let us go out into the field.” They both went out into the field.

12Jonathan said to David, “By Yahweh, the God of Israel, when I have sounded my father about this time tomorrow, or the third day, behold, if there is good toward David, won’t I then send to you, and disclose it to you?

13Yahweh do so to Jonathan, and more also, should it please my father to do you evil, if I don’t disclose it to you, and send you away, that you may go in peace. May Yahweh be with you, as he has been with my father.

14You shall not only while yet I live show me the loving kindness of Yahweh, that I not die;

15but you shall also not cut off your kindness from my house forever; no, not when Yahweh has cut off every one of the enemies of David from the surface of the earth.”

16So Jonathan made a covenant with David’s house, saying, “Yahweh will require it at the hand of David’s enemies.”

17Jonathan caused David to swear again, for the love that he had to him; for he loved him as he loved his own soul.

18Then Jonathan said to him, “Tomorrow is the new moon, and you will be missed, because your seat will be empty.

19When you have stayed three days, go down quickly, and come to the place where you hid yourself when this started, and remain by the stone Ezel.

20I will shoot three arrows on its side, as though I shot at a mark.

21Behold, I will send the boy, saying, ‘Go, find the arrows!’ If I tell the boy, ‘Behold, the arrows are on this side of you. Take them;’ then come; for there is peace to you and no danger, as Yahweh lives.

22But if I say this to the boy, ‘Behold, the arrows are beyond you;’ then go your way; for Yahweh has sent you away.

23Concerning the matter which you and I have spoken of, behold, Yahweh is between you and me forever.”

24So David hid himself in the field. When the new moon had come, the king sat himself down to eat food.

25The king sat on his seat, as at other times, even on the seat by the wall; and Jonathan stood up, and Abner sat by Saul’s side, but David’s place was empty.

26Nevertheless Saul didn’t say anything that day, for he thought, “Something has happened to him. He is not clean. Surely he is not clean.”

27On the next day after the new moon, the second day, David’s place was empty. Saul said to Jonathan his son, “Why doesn’t the son of Jesse come to eat, either yesterday, or today?”

28Jonathan answered Saul, “David earnestly asked permission of me to go to Bethlehem.

29He said, ‘Please let me go, for our family has a sacrifice in the city. My brother has commanded me to be there. Now, if I have found favor in your eyes, please let me go away and see my brothers.’ Therefore he has not come to the king’s table.”

30Then Saul’s anger burned against Jonathan, and he said to him, “You son of a perverse rebellious woman, don’t I know that you have chosen the son of Jesse to your own shame, and to the shame of your mother’s nakedness?

31For as long as the son of Jesse lives on the earth, you will not be established, nor will your kingdom. Therefore now send and bring him to me, for he shall surely die!”

32Jonathan answered Saul his father, and said to him, “Why should he be put to death? What has he done?”

33Saul cast his spear at him to strike him. By this Jonathan knew that his father was determined to put David to death.

34So Jonathan arose from the table in fierce anger, and ate no food the second day of the month; for he was grieved for David, because his father had treated him shamefully.

35In the morning, Jonathan went out into the field at the time appointed with David, and a little boy with him.

36He said to his boy, “Run, find now the arrows which I shoot.” As the boy ran, he shot an arrow beyond him.

37When the boy had come to the place of the arrow which Jonathan had shot, Jonathan cried after the boy, and said, “Isn’t the arrow beyond you?”

38Jonathan cried after the boy, “Go fast! Hurry! Don’t delay!” Jonathan’s boy gathered up the arrows, and came to his master.

39But the boy didn’t know anything. Only Jonathan and David knew the matter.

40Jonathan gave his weapons to his boy, and said to him, “Go, carry them to the city.”

41As soon as the boy was gone, David arose out of the south, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times. They kissed one another, and wept one with another, and David wept the most.

42Jonathan said to David, “Go in peace, because we have both sworn in Yahweh’s name, saying, ‘Yahweh is between me and you, and between my offspring and your offspring, forever.’” He arose and departed; and Jonathan went into the city.

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Summary

Jonathan tests Saul's intent and discovers his father is determined to kill David. The two friends weep together and renew their covenant before David flees into permanent exile from the court.

Authorship & Background

Author: Unknown, traditionally attributed to Samuel (for the early chapters), Nathan, and Gad (1 Chronicles 29:29). Originally one book with 2 Samuel in the Hebrew Bible. Written approximately 1050-950 BC. The book covers the transition from the judges to the monarchy — from the birth of Samuel through the death of Saul (approximately 1105-1010 BC). Key themes: God's sovereignty in raising and removing leaders, the danger of rejecting God's rule, the contrast between Saul (man's choice) and David (God's choice), and the principle that 'man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart' (16:7).
Historical Context: Chapter 20 is the emotional heart of the David- Jonathan narrative — their final meeting before David becomes a permanent fugitive. The chapter centers on covenant loyalty tested by impossible circumstances. Jonathan still cannot fully believe his father intends to kill David (v.2), but David knows: "there is but a step between me and death" (v.3). They devise a plan using the New Moon feast to test Saul's intentions, with an arrow signal to communicate the result. The test proves devastating — Saul explodes in rage, insults Jonathan's mother, declares David must die, and hurls his spear at his own son (vv.30-33). Jonathan now knows with certainty what David already knew. The chapter climaxes with one of Scripture's most moving farewells: David and Jonathan weep together, kiss, and part with the covenant words "The LORD be between me and thee, and between my seed and thy seed for ever" (v.42). This covenant will be honored — David will later show kindness to Jonathan's son Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9). The chapter also reveals Saul's complete spiritual deterioration: he refers to David only as "the son of Jesse" (refusing to use his name), insults his own son and wife, and attempts murder at his own table during a sacred feast. The contrast between Jonathan's selfless covenant love and Saul's selfish murderous rage could not be sharper.
David's Plea and the Plan (vv.1-10): David flees from Naioth to Jonathan with three anguished questions: "What have I done? what is mine iniquity? and what is my sin?" (v.1). Jonathan initially cannot believe his father's intent (v.2) — a son's natural loyalty. David insists: "there is but a step between me and death" (v.3). They devise a test: David will be absent from the New Moon feast. If Saul accepts the excuse (a family sacrifice in Bethlehem), David is safe. If Saul rages, his murderous intent is confirmed (vv.5-7). David appeals to their covenant: "thou hast brought thy servant into a covenant of the LORD with thee" (v.8). His integrity is so clear that he offers: "if there be in me iniquity, slay me thyself" (v.8).
The Covenant Renewed (vv.11-23): Jonathan and David go to the field for a private covenant renewal. Jonathan's words are remarkable — he acknowledges that David will be king: "the LORD be with thee, as he hath been with my father" (v.13). He asks only one thing: "show me the kindness of the LORD, that I die not" and "thou shalt not cut off thy kindness from my house for ever" (vv.14-15). Jonathan is securing mercy for his descendants from the future king. He knows David will reign and asks only for covenant loyalty — not for a share of power. The arrow signal is arranged: arrows short of the mark = safety; arrows beyond = flee (vv.20-22). The covenant is sealed: "the LORD be between thee and me for ever" (v.23).
Saul's Rage at the Feast (vv.24-34): David hides; the New Moon feast begins. On the first day, Saul assumes David is ceremonially unclean (v.26). On the second day, Saul demands to know why "the son of Jesse" is absent (v.27) — he will not even speak David's name. Jonathan gives the prepared excuse (vv.28-29). Saul erupts: "Thou son of the perverse rebellious woman" (v.30) — an insult to Jonathan's mother. He declares: "as long as the son of Jesse liveth upon the ground, thou shalt not be established, nor thy kingdom" (v.31). Saul sees clearly: David's rise means Jonathan's loss. When Jonathan defends David — "Wherefore shall he be slain? what hath he done?" (v.32) — Saul hurls his spear at his own son (v.33). Jonathan now knows with certainty: "it was determined of his father to slay David" (v.33). He leaves the table "in fierce anger" (v.34), grieved for David and shamed by his father.
The Farewell (vv.35-42): The next morning, Jonathan goes to the field with a boy. He shoots the arrow beyond the mark and calls: "Is not the arrow beyond thee?" and "Make speed, haste, stay not" (vv.37-38) — the signal of danger. The boy is sent away (vv.39-40). David emerges and they share their final farewell: David bows three times, they kiss, they weep together — "David exceeded" (v.41 KJV) / "David weeping the most" (ESV). Jonathan's parting words are the covenant blessing: "Go in peace... The LORD be between me and thee, and between my seed and thy seed for ever" (v.42). They part — Jonathan to the city, David to the wilderness. They will meet only once more (23:16-18).

Map & Geography

  • The field near Gibeah: Where Jonathan and David meet secretly and Jonathan signals with arrows
  • The stone Ezel: The landmark where David hides — the precise location is unknown but near Gibeah
  • David flees southward after Jonathan's warning — beginning his long journey as a fugitive from Saul

Commentary

  • Enduring Word (David Guzik): enduringword.com Guzik emphasizes that Jonathan's request for covenant kindness shows he fully accepted that David would be king. He was not fighting for his own throne but securing mercy for his family under David's future reign. This is remarkable selflessness — the crown prince planning for his own displacement.
  • Charles Spurgeon: "'The LORD be between me and thee for ever.' What a bond is this! Not merely human affection, which may cool; not merely a promise, which may be broken; but the LORD Himself standing as witness, guarantor, and enforcer of the covenant. When God is between two friends, nothing can separate them — not distance, not danger, not even death. Let us make all our friendships in the Lord, and they shall endure when earthly bonds have perished."

Reflection

  • 1. True friendship costs something (vv.30-34). Jonathan's loyalty to David cost him his father's approval, his safety (a spear thrown at him), and ultimately his throne. Real covenant love is not free — it demands sacrifice. Are you willing to pay the price of genuine loyalty to those God has placed in your life?
  • 2. Covenant extends beyond the present moment (vv.14-15, 42). Jonathan and David's covenant was not just for them — it was for their children and grandchildren. Our commitments should have generational vision. What covenants are you making that will bless the next generation?
  • 3. There is but a step between us and death (v.3). David's awareness of mortality was not morbid but clarifying. When you know life is fragile, you prioritize what matters: God, relationships, covenant faithfulness. Do not waste your days on trivialities — death is closer than you think.
  • 4. Sin destroys even family bonds (v.33). Saul threw his spear at his own son. Unchecked sin — jealousy, rage, rebellion against God — will eventually destroy every relationship, even the most sacred. Deal with sin before it deals with your family.
  • 5. Weeping is not weakness (v.41). David and Jonathan — two warriors, two men of extraordinary courage — wept openly at their parting. Grief expressed is grief processed. Do not suppress legitimate sorrow. Even the strongest hearts need to weep.